OK, I know it's not politically correct to use the word retarded. But, what if it were not a "bad" word? What if you hadn't had a negative reaction when you saw it in my blog title? Search your heart. Rethink this. My son has Down Syndrome. He lives in a world in which everybody treats him like he's "retarded." I'm his mom. My son teaches me so many valuable lessons that I am often too "slow" to get. I'm the Retarded (Loving) Mother.
Friday, September 28, 2012
Friday, September 14, 2012
How We Travel
I have had so many intense longings and dreams and wishes and hopes that my sweet Taylor was going to just jump right back on his bike after these several years of avoiding it. For SO long, his bike was the way he traveled in this world. People knew him (and still know him) by his bike sailing up and down Milledge Avenue---orange flag just a-wavin'. He was set free on that bike.
For now...for how long now??? Taylor has a new way of going. That means that I , too, have a new way of going---of moving---of traveling through these days.
I am doing my best to "lean into it" and let it be. Change is not a bad thing. He's on a journey. I'm on my own journey. Two paths. Two ways (at least two) of finding our way.
The destination is not clear exactly. What I'm seeing, though, is a road map that leads to a more expansive heart and hopefully to a place of kindness ----with success being redefined.
And, so we walk or ride electric scooters or hobble---our soles walking on kindness' soil.
My shoes are buckled. My feet are moving forward.
We're well into the midst of the journey.